Guide

How to Choose a Life Insurance Beneficiary

By Victor GomezUpdated October 20263 min read
Key takeaways
  • Name both a primary and a contingent beneficiary, and use full legal names.
  • Do not name a minor child directly; use a trust, custodian account or another structure.
  • Review your beneficiary form after every major life event, because it overrides your will.

Your life insurance beneficiary designation is one of the most important documents you will fill out, and one of the most often neglected. The person named on the form receives the money, regardless of what your will says. Getting it right takes a few minutes; getting it wrong can cause delays, disputes or a payout to someone you never intended.

Primary and contingent beneficiaries

Always name both. A common arrangement is a spouse as primary and children, or a trust for them, as contingent.

Be specific

Use full legal names, dates of birth and relationships. Vague designations such as "my children" can cause confusion, particularly in blended families, or if you have children later. Include current contact details so the insurer can find your beneficiaries when the time comes.

Naming a minor child

A minor cannot directly manage a large payout. If you name a child, a court may need to appoint a guardian of the estate to manage the money, which can be slow, costly and inflexible. Alternatives include:

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Per stirpes or per capita?

Some designations let you specify what happens if a beneficiary dies before you. With per stirpes, a deceased beneficiary's share passes to their descendants. With per capita, it is divided among the surviving named beneficiaries. The right choice depends on your family, and the form usually has a box to check.

Should you name your estate?

Naming your estate as beneficiary sends the proceeds through probate, which can delay payment and may expose the money to the claims of creditors. Naming people or a trust directly is usually simpler. There can be reasons to name the estate, but they are specific and worth discussing with an attorney.

Special situations

Keep it up to date

Review your beneficiaries after marriage, divorce, births, deaths in the family and any other major change. The beneficiary form overrides your will, so an outdated form can send money to an ex-spouse or someone you no longer intend to benefit. Let your beneficiaries know the policy exists and where to find the documents, so they can start the claim process without delay.

This article is for general educational purposes and is not personalized legal or financial advice. Beneficiary and estate rules vary by state. An estate attorney can advise on your specific situation.
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